Week Five: Anticipate Obstacles

Have you ever embarked on a personal improvement program only to fall off the wagon within a few weeks of getting started? What caused you to fail?

Did you have trouble making the time to apply the program’s material? Did you try to do too much at once? Were you talking to yourself in a disempowering way, saying things such as, “I never finish what I start” or “It won’t matter anyway”?

One Thing To Think About

We fail to succeed because we fail to anticipate the forces in our lives that have the potential to derail our focus. It doesn’t matter what the source of these factors are; whether they’re related to a lack of time, a lack of personal belief, or a lack of real conviction. The unexamined presence of these saboteurs in your life will slow you down (at best), or (in a worst case scenario) stop you in your tracks.

One Question To Answer

What factors have the potential to stop you from succeeding? Invest a few moments to identify the one or two key things you know could stop you from completing The 52 Week Remodel Your Reality Challenge.

One Challenge To Take 

Once you’ve determined what your stumbling blocks could be, decide how you’ll handle them, and handle them bin advance! For example;

  • If you’ve failed in the past because you didn’t have time to work through the material in a program, sit down with your calendar and make appointments with yourself for the next 48 weeks. (Give yourself one hour every week to review and apply the principles of that week’s lesson to your life.)

    I know this seems like a long time, but keep this in mind: In just a little less than one year, your life can be better than it is right now, or it can be worse. You get to decide which.)

  • If you’ve discovered that you talk to yourself in a self-defeating manner, decide that you’re going to recondition that disempowering habit. Identify the phrase you usually use that sets you up for failure. Then, create an alternative, affirmative statement to use in place of your self-defeating mantra.

For example, instead of telling yourself, “I never finish what I start,” change that phrase to “I may not have finished programs in the past, but I’m not living in the past. I’m living in the present, and right now I’m committed to finishing this program.”

Remember, change does not happen overnight. It involves a replacement of old and disempowering behaviors with new and empowering ones. This reconditioning process takes time and consistency. The 52 Week Remodel Your Reality Challenge has been designed to help you successfully move through this process; one step at a time. Take this week’s step, and you will find yourself just a little bit further down the path of positive change.

 

Until Next Week,

Kim

Week Four: Personalize Balance

In the last couple of weeks we’ve addressed the primary question I hear from people all over the world, “How do I find time for what matters to me?” I hope you have enjoyed and benefited from our discussion.

The second most prominent question I encounter as I meet with people around the world has to do with balance. “How do I balance all of the demands of my life; work, home, family and self?” That’s what we’re going to talk about this week.

One Thing To Think About

You are unique, and your life is like no other. What equates to life balance for your neighbor or co-worker probably won’t work for you. You must define balance for yourself.

Balance isn’t necessarily about not being busy, although that may be part of your definition. It’s about taking care of all of you and all of what is important to you.

 

One Question To Answer

What does your ideal balanced life look like? What do you have time for? What do you get to enjoy? How much down time do you have? Take a few moments and define your balanced life (on paper) right now.

 

One Challenge To Take

Take one action this week to put just one component of your balanced life into action.

  • If your balanced life includes exercise, make appointments with yourself this week to begin training.
  • If your balanced life includes time with friends, make a date to get together with a friend you care about.
  • If your balanced life includes time invested in a career you love, take one step to begin manifesting your vocational dream.

It doesn’t matter what you do – so long as you do something. Take your first step, and begin living in balance!

Until Next Week,

Kim

http://www.kimfulcher.com

Week Three: Take Time

Last week I challenged you to identify and eradicate at least one time waster in your life. I hope you were able to define and delete at least one thing in your day-to-day reality that was taking your time without contributing to your dreams. This week, I want to challenge you to reclaim some of your newfound time.

One Thing To Think About

The most important moments you will ever invest will be those you carve out to be with yourself. There is a powerful force of knowledge within you, and you must make time to access this wisdom if you want to live the life of your dreams.

You don’t have to set aside huge chunks of time to connect with the force within you. You can tap into your power in as little as ten minutes a day. Ideally, you’ll use the same ten minutes each day; whether you spend a few quiet moments with yourself in the morning over a cup of coffee, sitting quietly on your lunch hour, or writing in your journal before you go to bed at night.

One Question To Answer

What is the best time of day for you to commit ten minutes of quiet time (minimally) five days per week?

One Challenge To Take

Take your calendar out, and schedule those appointments! This single (and simple) challenge might be the most important invitation I give you in the coming weeks.

Make this time for yourself. Don’t worry about how you’ll use it. (Believe me; I have plenty of homework in store for you!) Focus simply on making this time, and you will be well on your way!

Until Next Week,

Kim

http://www.kimfulcher.com

 

Week Two: Make Time

The most frequent complaint I hear from men and women around the world is “I don’t have enough time to _________.” No matter what you want in your life; whether it’s a successful business, financial independence, a loving relationship, a fit body, or any combination of desires, you must make time in your day-to-day reality if you want to bring your dreams to life.

The truth is; you’re never going to find time to do the things that matter to you. (I assure you, it’s not hiding). You must make it. That means you must sit down with your calendar, and schedule regular appointments with yourself to focus on your dreams and goals.

In coming weeks I will walk you through a process that you can use to identify and make room for everything that matters to you. For now, I’m going to invite you to take two baby steps.

This week, we’re going to reclaim some of your missing time. Next week, I’m going to ask you to set aside 10 minutes each day to apply The Remodel Your Reality Challenge to your life.


One Thing To Think About

You do have time to create the reality of your dreams. You simply need to identify the places in your life where you’re currently using times in ways that don’t serve your true desires.

  • Do you volunteer for projects you don’t really care about, only to find yourself frustrated and resentful when you have to show up to make good on your commitment?       (If so – stop that!)
  • Do you accept social invitations from people you don’t even like that much because you’re afraid of hurting their feelings if you decline? (If so – stop that!).
  • Do you spend time carelessly; cleaning the junk drawer, aimlessly surfing the internet, or reorganizing your sock drawer because those activities allow you to avoid the ones you know really matter – and therefore scare the hell out of you? (If so –stop that!)

Admittedly, I’m being a bit facetious, and yet, I’m doing so because change really is that simple.  Decide you are going to use your time deliberately, and be honest with yourself about the ways you waste this precious resource today.

 

One Question To Answer

Deep down inside, you know how you waste time. (I’ve never met someone who didn’t have at least one exquisitely honed strategy for doing so). Think about a typical day in your life. What is the one thing you could stop doing today, that would allow you give yourself the gift of 10 minutes a day to work on your life?

 

One Challenge To Take

Take action to eradicate this time waster from your life!

  • If you have an external commitment you need to get out of, make the call and get out of it.
  • If you have committed your time to social engagements you don’t particularly care about, make the call to cancel them.
  • If you waste time on ineffective activities, determine how you can get yourself back on track when you start to veer of course.

This week, own the truth that you are in charge of your time. You get to choose how you invest this precious resource. As you identify where you’re currently wasting your time and take steps to reclaim it, you are laying the foundation for the life you dream of to come into being.

Until Next Week

Kim

Week One: Think, Answer, Act

Welcome to the first week of what I hope will be a life-affirming journey that will excite and ignite you!

For the next 52 weeks, I’m going to introduce you to practical life skills, success tools, and fulfillment concepts designed to help you take control of your life and reclaim your passion.  These skills, tools, and concepts will be pulled from my book, Remodel Your Reality (www.remodelyourreality.com).

If you’ll allow me to be your coach, I’ll put three things in front of you each week – for the next 52 weeks;

  • one provocative thing to think about,
  • one powerful question to answer, and
  • one transformative challenge to take.

When you invest a few moments to think, answer, and act each week, you’ll watch your life (and feel yourself) transform.  In fact, I’m so confident that you will change your life using this process that I am going to challenge you to make this weekly investment in yourself.

We’ll call our journey The 52 Week Remodel Your Reality Challenge.

Here we go. Let’s talk about power.

 

One Thing To Think About

There is an incredible power within you. In fact, it lives within each one of us. Your power will be expressed in a way that is unique to you, and once found it will impact your life and the lives of everyone around you in a profound (and fabulous) way.

Your power may be hidden beneath layers of fear and shame. It may be sleeping, worn out from trying to get your attention as you run through life. It may be sitting on the sidelines of your heart, uncertain about how the people in your life will respond when it ventures out. No matter how it waits, I promise you it is waiting. It wants to be uncovered, awakened, and unleashed.

 

One Question To Answer

What one thing do you need to START doing or STOP doing in order to give your power the chance to show up in your life?

 

One Challenge To Take

DO that one thing this week – or – STOP doing the one thing you know is holding you back. That’s all there is to it.  You’re on your way!

Until Next Week

Kim